Star Trek The Next Generation
S3E5
· The Bonding

R'uustai: Worf Binds Jeremy

In Worf's darkened quarters, the security officer performs a quiet Klingon R'uustai with twelve‑year‑old Jeremy: Worf removes his sash, places it over the boy, and they light candles together in a small, solemn rite. Worf teaches and utters a phrase that honors their mothers; Jeremy, after a beat, repeats it. The ceremony converts private loss into an active choice of belonging — a catalytic emotional turning point that eases Jeremy's attachment to an illusory comfort and forges a real, costly family bond with Worf.

Plot Beats

The narrative micro-steps within this event

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Worf and Jeremy perform the Klingon R'uustai ritual, lighting candles and exchanging sashes, symbolizing their new familial bond.

solemnity to connection ['dark stateroom with candles']

Worf speaks the Klingon phrase honoring their mothers, reinforcing the ritual's purpose and their new bond.

ritual to reverence

Jeremy, curious and seeking understanding, asks Worf to translate the Klingon phrase.

uncertainty to seeking

Worf explains the phrase's meaning, emphasizing the honor to their mothers and the strength of their new family.

explanation to affirmation

Jeremy repeats the Klingon phrase softly, fully embracing the ritual and his new bond with Worf.

acceptance to belonging

The scene fades out as Worf and Jeremy stand together, looking out at the stars, their bond solidified.

connection to peace ['starlit view']

Who Was There

Characters present in this moment

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Jeremy Aster
primary

Quietly tentative but open—grief-tempered curiosity turning toward cautious acceptance as he experiences the ceremony's gravity.

Jeremy, wearing a child's Klingon robe, receives Worf's sash, follows Worf in lighting the candles, asks what the phrase means, and softly repeats it—a boy tentatively stepping into a ceremonial vow and testing a new source of belonging.

Goals in this moment
  • • Understand the meaning of the phrase and the ritual being offered.
  • • Find a sense of family or belonging after his loss.
  • • Test whether this new bond can replace or stand against the illusory comfort he previously sought.
Active beliefs
  • • Ritual words and actions might create real connection and protection.
  • • Adults can provide dependable family where he has lost it before.
  • • Honoring mothers is important and may help make sense of his grief.
Character traits
tentative curious receptive vulnerable seeking
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Worf
Lieutenant, Chief of Security / Tactical Officer
 primary

Controlled solemnity with underlying guilt and determined resolve — outwardly composed, inwardly carrying responsibility and the need to convert loss into duty.

Worf, dressed in full Klingon regalia, removes his sash and places it across Jeremy's shoulders, leads them as they light candles, speaks the ceremonial phrase, then stands watching Jeremy and the stars—a disciplined warrior performing a private, ritualized act of atonement and guardianship.

Goals in this moment
  • • Formally bind Jeremy into a familial relationship through the R'uustai ritual.
  • • Provide Jeremy with structure and protection while atoning for the failure of the away team.
  • • Use Klingon tradition to translate grief into an actionable obligation that keeps Jeremy safe.
Active beliefs
  • • R'uustai creates real social and moral obligations — once performed, it binds people into family.
  • • Jeremy needs a stable, enforceable bond more than hurried comfort; ritual will offer meaning and protection.
  • • Honoring the dead through ritual is both healing and necessary for moving forward.
Character traits
solemn ceremonial protective disciplined resolute
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Objects Involved

Significant items in this scene

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Jeremy's Child's Klingon Robe

The child's Klingon robe functions as Jeremy's visible participation in the rite: it frames him as an initiated participant, signaling seriousness and cultural acceptance. Its presence makes the ceremony tangible and gives Jeremy a physical identity within Klingon kinship during the R'uustai.

Before: Worn by Jeremy at the start of the …
After: Still worn by Jeremy after the ritual, now …
Before: Worn by Jeremy at the start of the ritual, neatly fitting his twelve-year-old frame and denoting ceremonial intent.
After: Still worn by Jeremy after the ritual, now serving as a visible signifier of the newly formed bond and his accepted role within Worf's adopted family.

Location Details

Places and their significance in this event

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Worf's Quarters

Worf's quarters provide the private, dimly lit space necessary for an intimate Klingon ritual: cramped, quiet, and removed from the ship's public areas, the room allows Worf to perform a cultural rite away from duty's gaze, transforming personal grief into a solemn family act.

Atmosphere Quiet, dark, solemn, intimate — heavy with candlelight and the ship's low mechanical hum, fostering …
Function Refuge and private ceremonial stage where a formal bonding can take place without interruption.
Symbolism Represents the intersection of personal duty and private mourning; a small chamber where institutional roles …
Access De facto private — restricted to Worf and invited guests (here, Jeremy); not a public …
Room is dark with only five intricate candles present, one already lit. Jeremy and Worf are framed by the stateroom window; Worf stands looking out at the stars after the ritual. Low mechanical hum of the ship and sparse furnishings emphasize intimacy and isolation.

Narrative Connections

How this event relates to others in the story

What led here 2
Symbolic Parallel

"The perfect recreation of Jeremy's Earth home, complete with familiar sights and sounds, contrasts with the Klingon R'uustai ritual's symbolic transformation of shared loss into belonging, representing the choice between illusion and reality."

The Seduction of Home
S3E5 · The Bonding
Symbolic Parallel

"The perfect recreation of Jeremy's Earth home, complete with familiar sights and sounds, contrasts with the Klingon R'uustai ritual's symbolic transformation of shared loss into belonging, representing the choice between illusion and reality."

The Comfort of Home — Troi's Reach, Picard's Question
S3E5 · The Bonding

Part of Larger Arcs

Captain Picard's moral crucible: whether to protect the orphaned child (Jeremy) by allowing a painless, comforting illusion or to deny the illusion in order to preserve the child's capacity to grieve and to protect the ship—tested directly when an appa... Jeremy's internal struggle to move from stunned, repressed grief and the temptation to live inside a fabricated reunion, toward authentic mourning and acceptance of a living community (the choice point between illusion and belonging). The Intruder (an energy/entity manifesting as Marla Aster) versus the Enterprise and Jeremy: a predatory, non‑human intelligence exploits human longing to seize custody of the child and to draw power from the ship, forcing physical, psychic, and moral ... Worf's interpersonal and atonement arc: personal guilt and the need to make Marla Aster's death 'worthy' by offering Jeremy a permanent familial bond (R'uustai) — resisted by Troi's caution and the crew's concern for the child's psychological timeline.

Key Dialogue

"WORF: "SoS jIH batlh SoH.""
"WORF: "It honors the memory of our mothers. We have bonded and our families are stronger.""
"JEREMY: "((softly)) SoS jIH balth SoH.""